Special Insights No. 1
First Quarter 2006
Adult Sabbath School Lessons
“Families in the Family of God”
(Produced by the Editorial Board of the 1888 Message Study Committee)
A Family of Families
Why this special series of Lessons?The leadership
of our church is concerned about the breakdown of families within the
church, for it is too much like what is happening in the world. Statistics
vary, but everybody knows that roughly half of marriages in the world
end in failure, and of those that manage to stick together, many are
often miserably unhappy. Satan has gained too much of an advantage,
somehow. There is even concern whether marriage can endure. In at least
one European country, society openly endorses couples living together
without marriage, and in one Union Conference it is debated whether
couples living together without marriage are suitable for baptism into
the church. The very question implies that marriage means nothing any
more. Must the one true remnant church of Bible prophecy (Rev. 12:17
and 14:12) suffer our levees to collapse and succumb to the rising tide
of me-first loveless living?
Nevertheless, we are a most unusual church because we have a divine
mandate to prepare a people for meeting Jesus when He returns. That
means an experience in receiving and knowing the love (agape)
of Christ (Eph. 3:19). How can family bonds be strengthened with that
love? How can the idea of marriage be honored and glorified? How can
husband and wife learn to be happy in love, even into old age? There
used to be a popular song, “Silver Threads Among the Gold,” that told
of youthful love still strong when hairs were white.
Should our Conferences employ pastors whose marriages have failed and
they are divorced? Should our churches elect elders who are divorced?
How do we inspire and encourage our youth to enter into marriage with
a serious purpose to follow God’s commandments “until death do us part”?
Home is the hardest place to be a Christian! Why? It’s impossible
to fool anybody where everybody knows you in and out. But if love (agape)
prevails, happiness comes with it, and it will be easier for children
to grow up as happy Christians. Sometimes, maybe too often, incipient
adultery lies buried in the hearts of husband or wife and thus poisons
the atmosphere for the children.
Therefore the supreme question we ask as we begin this new series of
Study Guides is—how can we know and receive the love (agape)
of Christ into our marriages and homes? Many books address the problem.
Some are helpful. But we begin by recognizing that the Bible is inspired
by the Holy Spirit of God, and there we read that the love of Christ
(agape) is the ultimate answer to these problems (2 Cor. 5:14-19;
Eph. 5:25).
We begin with Bible Good News: “God sets the solitary in families”
(Psalm 68:6). In other words, marriage is His plan for “solitary” persons
who are lonely (see 1 Corinthians chapter 7 where Paul says that marriage
may not be the way of happiness for some special people who are equally
loved by the Lord). The word “solitary” has an interesting meaning in
Hebrew—to be lonely like an only child. All of us truly belong in that
category. Apart from Christ, we were lonely and God did for us what
He did for solitary Adam. And friends are part of the Lord’s gift to
us all.
This is a prelude to His giving the “solitary” a home in His New Jerusalem
forever. Rightly understood, family life in this great antitypical Day
of Atonement is a prelude to the social fellowship of meeting Jesus,
the holy angels, and all the redeemed and unfallen ones of heaven. Sabbath-keeping
is the special gift of God for family happiness, the one day in the
week when we are completely delivered from this terrible addiction of
ogling the papers, the magazines, the neighbors, being tempted to covet
their possessions. (Such envy ruins our happiness!) Sabbath makes being
poor more endurable, and church fellowship to be a joy to lonely people.
Did Jesus enjoy a happy home? He was born into a family where His mother
was a step-mother to four (probably difficult) boys whose names we have
in Matthew 13:55-58, and there were at least also two step-sisters—all
of whom were “older” than He and thus annoyed Him even into their maturity.
This happened all during Jesus’ stay at home before the age of 30. Even
during his ministry, the older brothers tried to tell Him what to do,
with disdain. His being “despised and rejected of men” included that
at His earthly home! (cf. John 7:3-5; it was the Jewish custom for older
siblings to “boss” the younger ones around).
Imagine what it was like for this Baby to begin His consciousness by
finding Himself in such a home atmosphere! After the early trip to Egypt,
step-father Joseph decided to take Mary and the Baby up to Nazareth
to join the half-siblings. Children, if your home is less than perfect,
think of Jesus! He endured earthly life in an unhappy home so that you
may enjoy life in happy homes!
Think of Jesus’ love for His poor mother Mary, through whose soul was
plunged that terrible sword that old Simeon had predicted in Luke 2:34,
35. No woman in all of earth’s history has borne a heavier burden than
she! Think of a mother being forced to watch the Roman soldiers strip
her Son naked and sling Him up on a cross and hear those people and
the leaders of her church revile Him and condemn Him to hell!
This is what it cost her to be the mother of our Savior! A domestic,
earthly home was the setting for the life and death of the Son of God!
He endured every pain that any of us have had to endure.
Ellen White makes clear that the coming of the 1888 message divinely
“sent” to the leadership of the Seventh-day Adventist Church was a fulfillment
of God’s promise to send us “Elijah before the coming of the great and
dreadful day of the Lord” (Mal. 4:4, 5). His primary mission? To
bring reconciliation between estranged hearts!
Now,
whatever it may cost, let us take up our cross and follow Him all the
way we find that He permits to lie before us. May your study of these
new Lesson Guides in 2006 be rewarding!
—Robert J. Wieland
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